Trying To Conceive, Tips && Thoughts Please!?

My boyfriend and I have been trying for two months now. Not alot I know! I didn't get my last period, only light spotting for a few hours about a week and a half ago and had crazy pregnancy symptoms. Took two home pregnancy tests, both came up negative. If the light spotting was in fact a period, could I get some tips on the best way to conceive. The false alarm has got me all riled up and I want this a hundred times more than I did before! Help!