Need help ?? serious answers please?

It all started back when i was a Junior in H.S. I was going out w/ my bf Alan for about a year and when my mom started her new job there was this Kid that worked w/ her named Joe. He started coming by after work and staying till around 2 in the morning. My and My Bf were go through some hard patches and i was really intriqued by Joe. There was some flirtation going on and he was really nice. I was about to leave my bf for him but someone really close to my bf died so i couldn't possibly do that so i stuck it out w/ him. and Joe ended up going into the Coast Guard and was gone for months and then moved away. He came back and i was still going out w/ my bf he came over x-mas eve we made cookies, then on v-day I got a text message from him saying that he wanted to be w/ me and my bf didn't treat me right and he'd treat me better. I told him he couldn't be serious, wanting me now and living 2 states away. more...